1. Do not wait to inform your children about moving. Tell your kids about the move as soon as possible!
It is natural to assume that the less time children have to think about moving, the easier it will be for them when the time comes. However, experts say it is actually the opposite. Children of all ages need time to get used to the idea of starting again somewhere new. Don't wait until the last minute. Remember to make it sound exciting – children love an adventure.
2. Welcome your children's questions about moving.
Open lines of communication will go a long way toward helping your children feel comfortable with moving. It is okay if you can't answer all their questions immediately, try and reassure them of any uncertainties they may have. Your children’s questions can give you a good idea of their true feelings about the move - whether they are excited, scared, or anxious. Some questions may also offer an ideal solution to help involve them in the moving process. Suggest that they have a look online to locate nearby libraries, parks, sports centres, and places which might interest them in their new area.

3. Have a positive attitude towards the move.
Your attitude about the move will influence your children's attitude too. If you dread moving, the move will then be seen as negative to them. If you appear to have an enthusiastic, upbeat, and positive manner about the new experiences and opportunities in store, your children will be more likely to share your enthusiasm. Talk to them about the new house, new bedrooms, new schools and new friends. Share any moving experiences you had as a child with them to reassure them.
 
4. Include your children in the move.
This is a good time to emphasize that the move concerns the whole family and that everyone will be part of the planning, packing, and perhaps even choosing the new home. Give children small tasks and ask them to think of things they can do to help. Encourage them to contribute ideas of how they can prepare for the move. Assure your kids that their contributions, however small, will be valued and greatly appreciated.